As a Prophet/Prophetess you have to know when to Speak and when to be Quiet. As the word tells us in the book of Ecclesiastics 3:7, there is a time to rend (split or tare), and a time sew a time to keep silent and a time speak. Everything is not meant to be told; however, if God tell you to speak it, you speak it. In certain things, you have to weigh the options and evaluate the circumstances.
Example: If I The Apostle, see that your spouse is engaging in infidelity, and I know that you are NOT working anywhere and you have 4 children, why would I tell you that your spouse is having an affair? something that you more than likely already know? Don’t get me wrong, IF God want me to inform you of this, of course I’ll convey what God want me to tell you. People like to blame the Prophets/Prophetess for things that take place in their life that they already know, but because the Prophetess keep quiet; they are at fault (WRONG). If God don’t tell me to say anything, I WILL NOT, if you ask me, that is something totally different and I’ll only tell you what God tell me to tell you If or when you ask.
Certain things should be spoken, but you do have to use wisdom in what you say. Definitely don’t let a child be abused If you see it in your spiritual eyesight taking place at that time, MEANING, if it’s happening at that current time meaning that season and you see it in the spirit. KNOW THIS: one thing that we must know is, God want his people to stay together NOT separate. That mean make your marriage work and don’t separate for small things. The word says in Matthew 19:6 Wherefore they are no longer twain but one flesh; what therefore God has joined together, let no man put asunder. As long as you are married, the devil is going to do his job which is to cause division and destruction.
I understand that you can’t make any-one (your spouse) want you. If they decide to go and get a divorce, that is out of your hands and control. That is the decision that your spouse made, and you have no control over your spouse mindset or the decision they make; however, God want his Apostles (Shepherds), Bishops, Pastors & Spiritual Leaders to encourage husbands and wives to stay together.
IMPORTANT Please note that everyone doesn’t need to feel afraid whenever a prophet/prophetess is in your presence, always thinking that they know your every thought! They only know what God reveals. I can assure you that a good Prophet/Prophetess is not going to tell your family what you did last month to cause confusion in your home. Please understand, most people have the wrong concept of who and what a prophet/prophetess does and the true meaning of a Prophet/Prophetess; which is to encourage, warn and tell the future to the believers.